Four University pressures you shouldn't fall for

The modern world and especially the emergence of social media has encouraged a culture of ‘no room for failures’ while flooding of pictures on every little achievement has become the norm. 

This culture breeds an unnecessary pressure to impress, be perfect and gain favor in the eyes of everyone.

The peak of these pressures displayed in university campuses particularly among freshmen who want to sync into the school community.

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Here is a list of university pressures you shouldn’t fall for…

Academic Pressures

Although your main objective in the university is to gain valuable knowledge and skills, you shouldn’t buy into the craze of being the best at everything.

Often times, very ambitious students set lofty academic goals for themselves and become depressed if they fall short of their expectations.

It is important to take your studies seriously, create a schedule, plan and judiciously make the best out of your education. Don’t overstress yourself.

Pressure from ‘ rich ’ kids

It is intriguing to realise how most students in university campuses act like they come from wealthy families.

Luxury is cherished among today’s youth and the pressure to wear expensive clothing and look rich would haunt you from the first of school.

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It would be unfortunate if you fall for this. Most of these students encounter the same financial constraints you might face but engage in several unscrupulous acts to come off as expensive.

If you’re from a humble home, this is not the time to complain to your parents about the materialistic possessions they can’t afford for you. Live within your means.

Relationships Pressures

It is very common to see university students flaunt their relationships on social media, in class and in their rooms.

Some students would take advantage of the independence they have to share their beds with their partners, kiss in front of roommates and make others feel like they’re missing out.

However, these campus relationships are not all rosy and romantic as they showcase on the outside.

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It is rife with fights, misery and banters that you don’t need in your first year of university.

The pressure to be overly independent

University students can go overboard with their new found independence.

Most of them neglect parental advice and correction, exhibit gross disrespect for authority and reject any form of control.

Your admission to university doesn’t give you a pass to total independence. You’re still under the tutelage of your parents from whom you can learn a lot of valuable life lessons. Sit down and be humble!

Source: pulse.com.gh